I have this habit of trying to avoid storms, and I try to leave just right before one hits my area. The other day as I pulled away from my house the lightening bolts seemed to be hitting only a few feet from my car. But I managed to drive away and left the dark ominous sky in my rearview mirror.
In life we definitely encounter myriads of storms. I have been caught up in one for two months now with a several different events that have tried to shake me a good few times. It has been a lot.
People have had this tendency during this time to tell me how I can be ” victorious,” and that ” He will deliver me and my family through this,” or ” Imagine the strength that is building in you right now,” and also ” Well, maybe I can just encourage you through this.”…
And while they all have been kind and meant well, that sometimes we just have to stop and think of the deeper message in all of this, and only a message that God could give…
Sometimes its not about finding victory in our times of grief, sometimes its just that we have to keep going through it in order to come out of it. Simply that.
I mean let’s face it, there is no magic that could keep a real storm from coming, and there is no magic way to make it pass any faster than it came…its just how it is.
It’s God’s timing. We just have to know that He knows the purpose.
I had a friend say to me that she is tired of sharing about what she is going through, because the people around her make her feel like she is just a “drama queen.”
Folks, I gotta tell you sometimes we are just inundated with so much that its seems like some of it could be exaggerated. But it IS possible to have so much going on that it overwhelms people around us at the same time. And it overwhelms them…
Because only God is God.
Words will carry weight when needed but when we don’t know what to say we have to be careful what we do say. We have to be careful that if what we speak that we also believe. Don’t let your words come through empty, or just don’t speak at all.
I’ve had a lot of people love me through some real recent events, but the best were those who would tell me:
” Quit with the cliches of how you think you are suppose to be, and tell me how you really feel.” And they listened, and they were just empathetic.
We all want to love well. We also all want to make people feel better where they are in their current situation.
But sometimes its just our place to love well, and let the people around us go through what they need to.
Sometimes we just need to watch them cry, sometimes they need to know that we see it.
It’s what Jesus would do. It’s our ultimate goal in this life to become like Him.
The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me,
because the Lord has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
to proclaim freedom for the captives
and release from darkness for the prisoners,[a]
2 to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor
and the day of vengeance of our God,
to comfort all who mourn,
3 and provide for those who grieve in Zion—
to bestow on them a crown of beauty
instead of ashes,
the oil of joy
instead of mourning,
and a garment of praise
instead of a spirit of despair.
They will be called oaks of righteousness,
a planting of the Lord
for the display of his splendor.